welcome back, i know some of y'all wanna kill me already for making u have to finish up ur reading b4 u read the concluding chapter. while some peoples cant wait to comment and say stuff. all well.....
continuing from where i stopped, our minds are so made up that our ready made opinion about guys helps us attract guys with the same exact demenour that we dont want. why cant we approach every guy with a clean sheet and see what comes out of it.
As regards naija guys dissing naija girls. its somewat of the same thing with a lil extra somn somn. look my gorgeous woman-beings, some guys date and expect somn somn from u (i know they gonn think i'm selling them out) but its the truth. the minute the girl doesnt give it up we start to complain. its worse if our ex's have been chicks that all they want is a man who can KEREWA all day all night. thus within a short minute of our previous relationships, we have been able to get wat we want, how much longer we stay with her is not the point but the fact that it was given up hassle free is wats the koko. we are loving things till we start to realise that, we needs to start getting serious and work towards increasing the worlds population in our own lil way. we know awesomely well that our mama would dis-son us if we came home with "mummy hi" or in short anything other than a naija wifey. We start to pull away from our KEREWA buddy and she knowing wat she wants from her men, starts doing the next guy that comes along thereby giving us the reason to want out. Short story long, we would break up with miss and embark on our quest for our miss nigeria, our nigerian queencess.
here is where the confluence of the two rivers (river naija guy and river naija girl) is located. they both know time is not in their favor, they both want some of wat they enjoyed in the past relationships but wont want to compromise by letting go of those things and approaching each other fresh like mama toyin bread. then u have it, the naija guy bashing and naija girl dissing contest kicks in.
we should all stop being in denial of the fact that we would love to get married to someone nigerian, stop all this venting, fronting, backing and in some cases siding all in the name of trying to create a front in our quest for our dream naija husband or wifey while we also eliminate the weakest links that might wanna act like the strongest.
thanks for coming to class today. we shall see next time out. but till then i remain the only accountant whois a member of NSBE (national society for black engineers) with the name EngineerAyo. thank you and have a nice week.
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Lmao@ confluence.. river naijaboy and rivernaija gal.
lol.. Engr na wah for you and the way yu put your words..lol.. so u don turn am to online class?
We need to learn that in relationshops, no man can be like the other guy.. if Man A is tall and poor, maybe Man B might be better and richer but short, but we have to learn to compromise for some stuffs.. nobody is perfect..ok God help me too.
Thanks for the class..:)
btw: I think you should go commenting in other blogs so that yu can have more visitors and more comments..
Chief, wetin you dey feel like sef? Instead of using your brain to think about how to send me my isi ewu, you dey there dey misyarn about love. Who cares about love when my isi ewu is @ stake? :)
I have never laughed so much in mylife; y'all got me rolling about in stitches here!!
but on a serious note though, thanks for shedding light on the whole naija guy/girl situation. I agree, at the end of the day, if we're all really honest with ourselves, despite everything most of us would still wanna end up with a fellow nigerian. all that fronting and backing (LOVE that phrase) just comes with the territory.
@vera: i hope you get your isi ewu quick quick, oh! lol
i have finally declared ur isi-ewu as an hostage. u go hear wien. wait till i post up part two of my parade report. u will come sprinting cos crawling wont even make the cut at all.
lmao nice post.
lol...too funny. Nice Blog. I'm a member of NSBE too...gotta love that organization! :)
You again - this lesson self you give free of charge, are you sure yourself that its correct. LOL.
@ stranger called ME, i didnt say it was correct, did i? in my classes. i dont teach, i'm not a teacher, i'm not meant to teach. i'm more like a guide, i give the tools and people examine them, take and make sense out of the nonsense i provide them.
@omo ibadan, i'm a NSBE member o. thanks to my sister who signed me up even b4 agreeing to. if u ever wonder if there was anything like an engineerccountant, there sure is. NA ME BE THAT!
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