Heart breaks! Relationships! et all! people get heart broken due to many reasons. its not always the fault of the dumper neither is it always the fault of the dumpee. depending on how the players in relationships approach what they intend to have or wat they have, i think we could have less heart breaks or in some cases lung breaks. you might wonder where this is heading right. i bet u, u cannot even imagine. read on to find out.
ok peoples lets examine this together and see if it makes sense. or better still lets see if we could make sense out of the nonsense i have to say.
i think life/relationships would be better if guys make their intentions known to the girls right from the get go. my highschool of thought thinks guys should walk up to females and state wat their intentions are direct with no detours of any sort. e.g. A guy sees some chick he is interested in but his interest is not more that a quick fling. i think the guys words to the chick should be, Hi, i like you, wouldnt mind having a fling with u. and if the chick is feeling him the she should go ahead with it and same goes for the girls, if a guy approaches you and all u want from him is a fling then let him know by answering him with; i kinda like you too but all i want is a fling. and if the guy is also down with it, the floor is all theirs they could dance all they want.
this way both sides know wat they are getting into since they are both ok with the terms.
this leads me to the KOKO of the problem with relationships, heart breaks, lung cracks and wateverumacallit. most girls want promises that cannot be kept, same goes for guys, the minute the promises cannot be met friction is bound to come up, kinetic energy is produced which would later transform to heat energy, the heat then builds up till it cannot be contained any longer. thus, a melt down occurs.
wat am i driving at, simple as ABC, its about time guys and girls start making their intentions known from the get go. statements like these would make things a lot easier CAN I AHVE YOU FOR MARRIAGE, CAN I HAVE YOU FOR A FLING, CAN I HAVE YOU AS A HAND BAG, CAN I HAVE YOU AS MY ASSISTANT BOYFRIEND, etc etc etc....
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You are So RIGHT!!!!
but the keyword here is uncertainty. Life is full of uncertainties that you never know. I know many relationships that started out as just nothing but ended up in somethng serious, real serious and those that started out REALLY serious and ended up breaking up and that mess.and the other way round too..
See me thinks, just go with the flow. cos when you guys get real serious from the get go, you start to expect sooo much from the other person and vice versa, which in turn makes people hide certain stuffs because they do not want to hurt the person. Start off as buddies and talk about everything under the sun and bla, dont be uptight, be yourself and see where it goes. BUT BUT be considerate of other people's feelings cos cos.. ahh im tired jare..
ok i think i have overtalked sef.:)
u have a good point too but some people dont want to face the reality of life/ realtionships. they tend to put themselves on the spot and end up getting burned.
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